You know that moment when you look around at your “good” life and think:
“If this is it, I’m going to lose my mind.”
Nothing is technically wrong.
And yet you’re bored, underwhelmed, or quietly furious that this is the return on everything you’ve poured in.
You over-function. You hold it all together.
You’re praised for being “so strong” and “so reliable” while you slowly disappear from your own life.
And every time your hunger for more shows up, you smother it with:
- “I should just be grateful.”
- “Other people have it worse.”
- “It’s not that bad.”
Cool. Except… you’re still starving.
The More Mandate is your line in the sand.For 4 weeks, we’re running a controlled experiment in you being too much on purpose:
- Naming what you actually want (the “selfish” version).
- Cutting the obligations that are quietly draining you.
- Taking up more space than is comfortable.
- Making the unapologetic ask you’ve been circling for months (or years).
No more “next year.” No more “after things calm down.”
This is the thing that changes what every future year feels like.