[THIS IS FOR YOU IF...]
Not "what's wrong with me" questions. More like: What do I actually want? What would I do if no one needed anything from me? Who am I when I'm not performing a role?
You've spent the last two decades being really, really good at taking care of things. Career. Family. Household. Everyone's emotions. And you're not here because it broke you, you're here because you're finally ready to build something that's yours.
You want to remember what it feels like to want things.
Not "should" wants. Not practical wants. The kind of wants that don't make sense on paper but light you up when you think about them. The solo trip. The creative project. The career pivot that sounds crazy but won't leave you alone. The version of your life where you do things just because they sound fun.
You're ready to take up space in your own life.
You've been the supporting character long enough. You want to make decisions because you want to, not because they're sensible, expected, or convenient for everyone else. You want to find out what happens when you stop asking for permission. Ready to rediscover the woman who got buried under all those roles.
If that's you, welcome.
[THE TRUTH]
Most coaching tries to help you get back to normal.
I help you become someone who would intimidate the old version of you.
You don't need more therapy. You don't need more insight. You need someone who understands you're not rebuilding the same person in different circumstances—you're rebuilding as someone fundamentally different.
This is identity reclamation.
We interrupt the patterns.
We dismantle the performance.
We practice being different until the new you becomes automatic.
The work isn't about getting back.
It's about becoming who you're meant to be.
[HOW WE DO THE WORK]
Twice Monthly 1:1 Calls (Transformation, Not Check-Ins)
We map your next evolution and execute. No fluff. No "how was your week?" These are strategic interventions where we identify what's keeping you stuck and dismantle it.
Daily Telegram Access (Real-Time Intervention)
When you're about to backslide into people-pleasing or spiral into "maybe I should just stay..." we intervene then. In real-time. Not a week later on a call.
Direct Feedback on Your Actual Life
The emails you're scared to send. The decisions you're stalling on. The calendar that needs dismantling. I give you specific, direct feedback on the real shit—not theory.
The Unapologetic Method
The complete system for identity reconstruction. We expand your nervous system's capacity so you can handle the voltage of actually being yourself. We build the new identity through practice, not more insight.
[HERE'S WHAT BECOMES REAL]
You'll finally leave the job that's been slowly killing you. Even if it pays well, even if it looks good on paper, even if everyone thinks you're crazy.
You'll start the business you've been talking about for years. Not someday, not when conditions are perfect. Now. You'll stop waiting for permission and just move.
You'll end the relationship that's been draining you. The partner who's "fine" but not right, the marriage that died years ago, the dynamic that keeps you small. You'll choose yourself and mean it.
You'll set boundaries that shock people and you won't apologize. You'll say no without explaining yourself into exhaustion. You'll disappoint people and still sleep fine that night knowing you did what's best for you.
You'll move across the country because you want to. Not because it makes strategic sense, not because you have it all figured out. Because something inside you says "yes" and you finally trust that voice more than anyone else's opinion.
You'll make the decision everyone's been trying to talk you out of. No more gathering opinions. No more "let me think about it." You'll move while everyone else is still overthinking.
You'll become the woman people don't recognize anymore. Instead of trying to make them comfortable with your evolution, you'll let them be uncomfortable. You'll take up space. You'll be too much. And you'll finally understand that's exactly right.
This is what happens when you're finally ready to fuck shit up.
And honestly? This is just the beginning.
[THIS ISN'T FOR YOU IF...]
You need endless reassurance with no challenge. I'll support you deeply, and I'll call you on your shit.
You're not ready to disappoint people. If keeping everyone comfortable matters more than becoming yourself, you're not ready.
You're looking for basic function help. This work assumes you're functional. You're just not alive yet.