You have mastered being the Responsible One. The Easy One. The "Low Maintenance" One. And you are suffocating. It is time to stop building a life that looks "good" to everyone else, and build one that actually feels good to you.
On paper, your life looks fine.
You’re employed, you’re functional, and you pay your bills.
You’ve read the books, done the therapy, and color-coded your calendar to within an inch of its life.
But internally? You are managing a low-grade grief and the exhaustion of performing a role you never auditioned for.
You tell yourself you’re "waiting for clarity." Really you’re waiting for permission.
Permission to stop being the one who holds it all together. Permission to set boundaries that feel like betrayals. Permission to disappoint people and sleep beautifully that night.
The decision you’re avoiding? You’ve already made it.
Ready to do something about it?
Most of the world treats this moment (the burnout, the breakdown, the realization that you can’t keep doing this) as a problem to be solved. They want to get you "back to normal."
I don’t do "back to normal."
The "Good Girl" was a survival strategy. It kept you safe. It got you praise. But that version of you is breaking. Good. Let her break.
This is The Pursuit of Evolution. I help women navigate The Burning Down; that messy, terrifying gap between who you were performing as and who you actually are.
We aren't here to patch up the performance. We are here to conduct an identity autopsy and build a life that fits your deepest desires, not the ones you think you "should" have.
You know exactly why you are the way you are. You can psychoanalyze your childhood and your patterns better than most therapists.
But insight hasn't changed your life.
You need practice, not more theory or insight. My work is based on The Unapologetic Method—a nervous-system centered approach to closing the gap between knowing what to do and actually doing it.
We practice being different until it’s not practice anymore.
For the person who needs a partner in the trenches. You are done restarting your life every six months . You want high-touch, real-time intervention to help you make the impossible decisions and rebuild your identity from the ground up. [Learn More]
For the woman ready to take up space. A small, high-stakes cohort for women who are ready to stop apologizing for how they are wired. We break the "Good Girl" programming together, using the group to practice being "too much" in a room that celebrates it . [View The Group Details]
Your next evolution doesn't need anyone's permission.
let's fucking go!